Try to make stories from these sentences:
I was trying to write down some random sentences to help my students writing ,but somehow my unconscious mind is trying to drag me down to write a story out of these ,possibly it takes long time to pass form this stage.
luring into the documents to find out the truth…
It was totally dark and murky, he could hardly breathe while he was sniffling , snorting and hearing his heart was throbbing, suddenly….
In the one of excruciating cold winter nights they have decided to drive around the town and find a nice bar to hang out, wind was hauling and they had to peer to be able to get the keys inside the car handle’s lock ….
It was such a foppish, elegance speech,…
He could say anything to the parents he knew that they would say no to him, just said to her we much elope somewhere we can be together…
They claimed they have arrived first there and totally were discriminated the indigenous minorities,….
The prosecutors alleged a life sentence for him ,cause of his major crimes as he confessed reluctantly in the court…
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Tuesday November 3,
Tuesday November 3,
How we can be a good parents and how parenting is important!
Being a good parent means what?
In fact some think as long as you provide a shelter and breeding them and sending to the school the rest is teacher’s responsibilities.
Others say that they don’t see their children that much and have no time to spend with them which is very common and unfortunately destructive to build a child’s personality and character for future.
Nowadays a lot of parents have less time than before to spend with their children or use take care system.
In fact even from the early age after born a baby and toddler is grasping things by watching and saving in his unconscious mind. It is hard to distinguish when and how to treat and teach kid’s good and bad things.
Some parents still believe eon physical punishment as the best way of thresatenening and making a positive discipline or refer it to older generation.
On the other hand, some others give their kids so much freedom and say they learn it by themselves. Actually, make their own job pretty easy, in some ways, but later on when it comes to some disobediences and misbehavior try to find a clue and hint on society, school, friends, others but not on themselves.
But the question is what we can do and how?
I do believe that kid’s understood as much as an adult and express it in a very deferent way.
If a child does a bad action and does some thing wrong, could be they best try to solve and find they way what was his/her desire and what he wanted to say and show by doing that and talk to kid in his own childish language and instead of putting them under guilt and pressure, try to find the best solution with them.
Most of the time kid’s do something to draw attention, some times they have been neglected and some other times they are suffering for a deep emotion, such as sadness, depressed, annoyed and being lonely.
So we find it then we can easily come with best hint.
Moreover, instead of killing their actions can lead them to direct way, from indirect leading them.
Maybe we can call it” discipline without disgrace”.
Is never late to tell kid’s you love them and hold them tight in meantime. Always listen to them and some times whisper advice in their ears. They love it. Try to build self –worth and self-confident inside them.
I do belive everybody can be a great parents.
How we can be a good parents and how parenting is important!
Being a good parent means what?
In fact some think as long as you provide a shelter and breeding them and sending to the school the rest is teacher’s responsibilities.
Others say that they don’t see their children that much and have no time to spend with them which is very common and unfortunately destructive to build a child’s personality and character for future.
Nowadays a lot of parents have less time than before to spend with their children or use take care system.
In fact even from the early age after born a baby and toddler is grasping things by watching and saving in his unconscious mind. It is hard to distinguish when and how to treat and teach kid’s good and bad things.
Some parents still believe eon physical punishment as the best way of thresatenening and making a positive discipline or refer it to older generation.
On the other hand, some others give their kids so much freedom and say they learn it by themselves. Actually, make their own job pretty easy, in some ways, but later on when it comes to some disobediences and misbehavior try to find a clue and hint on society, school, friends, others but not on themselves.
But the question is what we can do and how?
I do believe that kid’s understood as much as an adult and express it in a very deferent way.
If a child does a bad action and does some thing wrong, could be they best try to solve and find they way what was his/her desire and what he wanted to say and show by doing that and talk to kid in his own childish language and instead of putting them under guilt and pressure, try to find the best solution with them.
Most of the time kid’s do something to draw attention, some times they have been neglected and some other times they are suffering for a deep emotion, such as sadness, depressed, annoyed and being lonely.
So we find it then we can easily come with best hint.
Moreover, instead of killing their actions can lead them to direct way, from indirect leading them.
Maybe we can call it” discipline without disgrace”.
Is never late to tell kid’s you love them and hold them tight in meantime. Always listen to them and some times whisper advice in their ears. They love it. Try to build self –worth and self-confident inside them.
I do belive everybody can be a great parents.
Sunday November 1, 2009:
Sunday November 1, 2009:
What do I think about modern, over educated women and their personal life?
I was reading an article which was about how elite women decide to resign from their even upscale, ideal jobs due to taking care of their kids.
I am still not a parent, as for me and my partner Wijb can have plenty of time to spend on each other, doing our hobbies and work as well.
In fact our jobs, as a teacher at university is pretty light job, occupied us for couple of hours per week. I call it “our lucky time of our life”. I know it won’t be for ever like this I don’t want it at least for him.
In fact, I think instead of he stays at home and play computer games and does his other hobbies, which I respect and support him for now, he can have a full time job and financially keep us more secure for unknown far future, although we are happy now and have enough to save then.
Anyhow, to be an educated, independent woman, sometimes I think deeply about whenever having a child and doubly I might not be able to do both tasks very well.
It is an instinct, platonic love toward kids and family which grows in a certain time of motherhood, presumably.
In order to take care of baby well which obviously consume couple of first years full attention from mum, rather than having a babysitter, not spending enough time for kid and family, or not having time to cook properly, no decent food, not be able to have a fun conversation on the phone and at the same time change baby’s nappies or do something’s else at the same time, cause not having enough time for anything, and just get microwave, warm up dishes which tastes cranky.
I don’t want to exaggerate the situation, but that’s what I have seen and what for years my mum did, unfortunately.
I am trying to do in different way for my kid and try to escape form that guilt of my conscious mind of missing work as I have done it for years.
On the other hand we have a kind of guilt of not working outside.
If we do it feel it what I am raised for, studied hard even till now, and get a good ,respected position and why one day I should let it go, for what and in which price?
Is it that we want?!
Almost 2 decades ago not all women needed to work and men were just only breadwinner of the family. I don’t know, but maybe they were happy too.
Nowadays after financial crises and then the recession time; so many women are going back to work dn thry to squeeze their time between loads of long work hours and having child care system and basically half of their salary goes to the pocket of child care companies.
What do I think about modern, over educated women and their personal life?
I was reading an article which was about how elite women decide to resign from their even upscale, ideal jobs due to taking care of their kids.
I am still not a parent, as for me and my partner Wijb can have plenty of time to spend on each other, doing our hobbies and work as well.
In fact our jobs, as a teacher at university is pretty light job, occupied us for couple of hours per week. I call it “our lucky time of our life”. I know it won’t be for ever like this I don’t want it at least for him.
In fact, I think instead of he stays at home and play computer games and does his other hobbies, which I respect and support him for now, he can have a full time job and financially keep us more secure for unknown far future, although we are happy now and have enough to save then.
Anyhow, to be an educated, independent woman, sometimes I think deeply about whenever having a child and doubly I might not be able to do both tasks very well.
It is an instinct, platonic love toward kids and family which grows in a certain time of motherhood, presumably.
In order to take care of baby well which obviously consume couple of first years full attention from mum, rather than having a babysitter, not spending enough time for kid and family, or not having time to cook properly, no decent food, not be able to have a fun conversation on the phone and at the same time change baby’s nappies or do something’s else at the same time, cause not having enough time for anything, and just get microwave, warm up dishes which tastes cranky.
I don’t want to exaggerate the situation, but that’s what I have seen and what for years my mum did, unfortunately.
I am trying to do in different way for my kid and try to escape form that guilt of my conscious mind of missing work as I have done it for years.
On the other hand we have a kind of guilt of not working outside.
If we do it feel it what I am raised for, studied hard even till now, and get a good ,respected position and why one day I should let it go, for what and in which price?
Is it that we want?!
Almost 2 decades ago not all women needed to work and men were just only breadwinner of the family. I don’t know, but maybe they were happy too.
Nowadays after financial crises and then the recession time; so many women are going back to work dn thry to squeeze their time between loads of long work hours and having child care system and basically half of their salary goes to the pocket of child care companies.
Sunday,Monday , November 08-9 2009
Sunday, Monday, November 08-9 2009
Sometimes there are marky, wague and blur images in your mind which you can’t figure out what is going on and happening in your life and around you.
It is exactly happening in my life nowadays and some of these pictures are solid in my mind.
Somehow some excruciating fear about future life has captured and surrounded me.
Our daily life is thriving smoothly and no creepy ,or huge events happening ,besides from now thinking about organizing and scheming for the marriage ceremony and more important my visa ,meanwhile dealing and sorting out stuff with University end of semester.
I used to think it is pretty is easy, to get married but now I am nervous and worried of whole thing and matters.
Obviously, things need to plan ahead, but the process of documents hopefully be accepted and ratified and after the news for municipal personal things to think and organized.
Somehow dreadful ideas about nothing go wrong.
Hopefully we have Wijb’s parents to help out and organize things ahead.
We are still waiting to hear if all documents are accepted and ratified there and more over what is very vague and irritating nowadays is Swine Flue, which hit our campus at university last month and it was night mare for 2 weeks the school was shut down and everybody freaked out.
Today I discovered again the gate is jammed and a narrow line passing and guards are testing the temperature again.
Well I don’t why always things happen at the same time. I am trying not to be disgraceful and touchy with events but so far hopping for best to happen.
Besides those documents which occupied our mind for couple months and hassles of preparing them for us and families, and so far not sure that everything is fine, worried about Visa to Europe and the last horrifying thing is if school again will be closed for a while.
Well, I don’t want to destroy my national winter holiday be affected by this news and more over on our marriage time.
Sometimes there are marky, wague and blur images in your mind which you can’t figure out what is going on and happening in your life and around you.
It is exactly happening in my life nowadays and some of these pictures are solid in my mind.
Somehow some excruciating fear about future life has captured and surrounded me.
Our daily life is thriving smoothly and no creepy ,or huge events happening ,besides from now thinking about organizing and scheming for the marriage ceremony and more important my visa ,meanwhile dealing and sorting out stuff with University end of semester.
I used to think it is pretty is easy, to get married but now I am nervous and worried of whole thing and matters.
Obviously, things need to plan ahead, but the process of documents hopefully be accepted and ratified and after the news for municipal personal things to think and organized.
Somehow dreadful ideas about nothing go wrong.
Hopefully we have Wijb’s parents to help out and organize things ahead.
We are still waiting to hear if all documents are accepted and ratified there and more over what is very vague and irritating nowadays is Swine Flue, which hit our campus at university last month and it was night mare for 2 weeks the school was shut down and everybody freaked out.
Today I discovered again the gate is jammed and a narrow line passing and guards are testing the temperature again.
Well I don’t why always things happen at the same time. I am trying not to be disgraceful and touchy with events but so far hopping for best to happen.
Besides those documents which occupied our mind for couple months and hassles of preparing them for us and families, and so far not sure that everything is fine, worried about Visa to Europe and the last horrifying thing is if school again will be closed for a while.
Well, I don’t want to destroy my national winter holiday be affected by this news and more over on our marriage time.
Sunday Novermber 30th, 2009 :
Sunday November 30, 2009:
Having a short fight yesterday and spending 2 days fuss in pot between me and Wijb, today we had a better feeling and both of us tried in different way to apologize and make it up.
Our discussions are usually for nothing and we fight for small, stupid things, such as a dress or where to go on holiday...
Anyhow, it has been 2 days that I am depressed cause I expected Wijb at least spends half of the money for clothes costs, which I usually pay myself, owing to costing so much, on the contrary he came up with ideas that those night dresses are too luxury and expensive and on and on..
Anyhow, today I paid myself and got them then afterwards felt much better, in meantime he tried to be nice and help me this time cleaning house with getting fussy, craggy face and spend a big bunch of money which some part of it is from his Birthday gift from his Dad buying a new “X-BOX” game.
Men are always men .You can’t change them and we shouldn’t try other wise always discussion appeared for nothing.
At least, I am happy he got something he likes, but I would say he needed to get more nice clothes!
I am really delighted to see the clothes here are in my size, and moreover so fashionable and comparably to Europe pretty cheap and reasonable.
Having a short fight yesterday and spending 2 days fuss in pot between me and Wijb, today we had a better feeling and both of us tried in different way to apologize and make it up.
Our discussions are usually for nothing and we fight for small, stupid things, such as a dress or where to go on holiday...
Anyhow, it has been 2 days that I am depressed cause I expected Wijb at least spends half of the money for clothes costs, which I usually pay myself, owing to costing so much, on the contrary he came up with ideas that those night dresses are too luxury and expensive and on and on..
Anyhow, today I paid myself and got them then afterwards felt much better, in meantime he tried to be nice and help me this time cleaning house with getting fussy, craggy face and spend a big bunch of money which some part of it is from his Birthday gift from his Dad buying a new “X-BOX” game.
Men are always men .You can’t change them and we shouldn’t try other wise always discussion appeared for nothing.
At least, I am happy he got something he likes, but I would say he needed to get more nice clothes!
I am really delighted to see the clothes here are in my size, and moreover so fashionable and comparably to Europe pretty cheap and reasonable.
November,11-12,2009:
November, 11-12th, 2009:
Another working day but a bit different as nature has celebrated of winter by wearing a proper, exotic white dress.
The first snow started from yesterday while we were in dance class, unbelievably was cold and spine-chilling at the end of our dance class around eightyish the streets were covered but snow and was so amazing and nicely done.
I had a small accident on the steps out of dance class. In china they like making steps and floors with marble and mosaics, which is killer, especially when it rains or snows.
Everywhere was so watery and slippery, I slide down from 4 steps and couldn’t stand, luckily no severe, major injuries but for couple of weeks will have bruises and swollen legs.
Brunches and shrubs fell everywhere it was actually a bit pathetic to see beautiful big brunches are on the floor as the first snow is pretty heavy and watery, so cause of so much for trees.
Walking is a challenge today, as roads are watery and slippery, after and a flurry evening and a cold, frozen, snowy night, morning’s scenery is beautiful and touching to see but need to be cautious. Bushes are covered and hidden by snow.
Some of the kids took advantage and in their break time were making snow man and throw snow ball at each other.
My students were a bit late and luckily I didn’t have the first hour teaching, the way back was wandering around and watching kids playing and saw couple nice, and precise snowman’s which were made artistically.
Another working day but a bit different as nature has celebrated of winter by wearing a proper, exotic white dress.
The first snow started from yesterday while we were in dance class, unbelievably was cold and spine-chilling at the end of our dance class around eightyish the streets were covered but snow and was so amazing and nicely done.
I had a small accident on the steps out of dance class. In china they like making steps and floors with marble and mosaics, which is killer, especially when it rains or snows.
Everywhere was so watery and slippery, I slide down from 4 steps and couldn’t stand, luckily no severe, major injuries but for couple of weeks will have bruises and swollen legs.
Brunches and shrubs fell everywhere it was actually a bit pathetic to see beautiful big brunches are on the floor as the first snow is pretty heavy and watery, so cause of so much for trees.
Walking is a challenge today, as roads are watery and slippery, after and a flurry evening and a cold, frozen, snowy night, morning’s scenery is beautiful and touching to see but need to be cautious. Bushes are covered and hidden by snow.
Some of the kids took advantage and in their break time were making snow man and throw snow ball at each other.
My students were a bit late and luckily I didn’t have the first hour teaching, the way back was wandering around and watching kids playing and saw couple nice, and precise snowman’s which were made artistically.
A short review of Office
October 2,Sunday:
A short review of office:
These nights we have a fever of watching office.
Despite being a complete British style old comedy type with a very strong accent though, we both like it the way it is.
Satirical irony and ridiculous, politically-incorrect humor make this show a hilarious must-watch
It is kind of a bitter comedy shows the reality of the society in England or so many other countries possibly how the briberies and relation ships works and moreover express genuinely much unfair and unbalanced British society between male and female workers ,despite of having a good reputation among a lot of countries or former colonized countries.
As I am getting more and more aware of Western society by reading more , watching movies ,contacting EU people more than past time and the most important thing ,traveling ,seeing the reality behind what looks like or have been told to us from especially The Britain.
Anyhow back to comedy show ,this sitcom ,reveal the manager appears a very component ,genuine person with a big grin all the time and try by teasing and having sense of humor make the office’s atmosphere more durable ,despite being aware of insulting, people and being so racist to gender specifically and other races though.
He tries to ignore the statistic whenever he has a meeting with his boss( owner of the factory, office) and look at her down by saying stupid ,outrageous jokes and kind of being ignorant person.
It is nice to see how people there try to keep their sense of humor and terminally expose it in a witty way.
One part for instance shows somebody non-stop keep calling his colleagues in order to give him a kind of criticizing of buying a very expensive ,unusable phone to disturb him every now and then.
On the other hand somebody has a crush on a married secretary and how the relation ship goes with whispering and sending notes during the working hour.
On the other hand shows the manger assistance which a very isolated ,reserved person who is not able to tie his own shoes alone and without help ,but very good at sucking his boss cock.By exaggeration and nodding all the time try to be so sweet there and everybody hates him.
A short review of office:
These nights we have a fever of watching office.
Despite being a complete British style old comedy type with a very strong accent though, we both like it the way it is.
Satirical irony and ridiculous, politically-incorrect humor make this show a hilarious must-watch
It is kind of a bitter comedy shows the reality of the society in England or so many other countries possibly how the briberies and relation ships works and moreover express genuinely much unfair and unbalanced British society between male and female workers ,despite of having a good reputation among a lot of countries or former colonized countries.
As I am getting more and more aware of Western society by reading more , watching movies ,contacting EU people more than past time and the most important thing ,traveling ,seeing the reality behind what looks like or have been told to us from especially The Britain.
Anyhow back to comedy show ,this sitcom ,reveal the manager appears a very component ,genuine person with a big grin all the time and try by teasing and having sense of humor make the office’s atmosphere more durable ,despite being aware of insulting, people and being so racist to gender specifically and other races though.
He tries to ignore the statistic whenever he has a meeting with his boss( owner of the factory, office) and look at her down by saying stupid ,outrageous jokes and kind of being ignorant person.
It is nice to see how people there try to keep their sense of humor and terminally expose it in a witty way.
One part for instance shows somebody non-stop keep calling his colleagues in order to give him a kind of criticizing of buying a very expensive ,unusable phone to disturb him every now and then.
On the other hand somebody has a crush on a married secretary and how the relation ship goes with whispering and sending notes during the working hour.
On the other hand shows the manger assistance which a very isolated ,reserved person who is not able to tie his own shoes alone and without help ,but very good at sucking his boss cock.By exaggeration and nodding all the time try to be so sweet there and everybody hates him.
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