Saturday, January 23, 2010

the differences between genders

It has been an issue between men and women how take their role as a good parents at home especially. I don’t want to patronized the situation and exaggerate it but somehow the reality is, as most studies and estatistics shows there are few fathers who accept to level their job or accept the flexible job in order to have enough time to take care of their children and spend more time with them.

On the other hand as the life goes toward more modernization and facilities so many thing has been changing compare to last generation .


Even if we don’t go back so far ,possibly look back 30 years ago and now ,we can see men are becoming more flexible and not be terrified to share house works and accept more responsibilities toward kids and family care.

In my opinion what do we need is society take care of this issue more seriously ,as it is happening in some countries to set paternity leave instead of two weeks to four weeks.

I am wondering how that works between us me and Wijb and could be he enough responsible as I want to be ,to leave his job or get more freedom to take care of our child one day?!

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